tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post4752246922505193443..comments2023-09-27T07:22:09.728-04:00Comments on Melissa's Meanderings: Dark Days Are LoomingMelissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04600684740584460891noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-43163764404255896152009-10-15T08:08:57.091-04:002009-10-15T08:08:57.091-04:00I just wanted to send some love.
Big hug. xI just wanted to send some love.<br />Big hug. xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-28064632188036115582009-10-14T18:42:59.976-04:002009-10-14T18:42:59.976-04:00My thoughts and prayers are with you too, Melissa....My thoughts and prayers are with you too, Melissa. <br /><br />It seems that we all go through a period of years in our lives I call "the dying years." For me and my wife it was from about '90 through '00. We lost all of our parents and grandparents in that period, plus my brother, and her sister. It seemed that we were always going to a funeral. Death is just another part of life...the ultimate graduation to something better. It's never pleasant but the pain will pass in time. <br /><br />Let the tears flow dear. There's certainly nothing wrong with that.<br />Hugs,<br />SuziAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-75913339553783792702009-10-14T09:57:15.808-04:002009-10-14T09:57:15.808-04:00May the Peace of the Lord be always with you. You ...May the Peace of the Lord be always with you. You and your sister will be in our prayers.<br />SarahKay & Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04244257765709660605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-61726943689264417962009-10-14T08:38:59.579-04:002009-10-14T08:38:59.579-04:00The greatest gift my parents ever gave me was that...The greatest gift my parents ever gave me was that little girl they brought home from the same hospital I came from not even two years before. I can recall conversations at our little tea table when it should have been impossible for my Irish twin to speak but I nevertheless recall them. I've always been fascinated with twins; always believing that they share a deep cosmic commitment to one another and to the world. She was there with you in birth and I believe you will be there for each other in death. They wait for us. All of the beautiful people we've loved and lost well they wait for us to join them. Your father is waiting for your sister and she will be waiting for you. It's the divine plan. We change form and that is God's real grace to us. You're such a strong person. Elegant and strong. I hope you will assure your twin it's okay to go ahead-that you will follow and you'll meet again as you always have and as you always will. You're both transitioning-just in different ways.The Crossdresser's Girlfriendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15586378006696952046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-14860247690671977882009-10-14T03:32:37.951-04:002009-10-14T03:32:37.951-04:00Keeping you in my thoughts, Melissa.Keeping you in my thoughts, Melissa.Leslie Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15373261212549008939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-3830204969826437922009-10-14T03:29:20.143-04:002009-10-14T03:29:20.143-04:00Same for me.
LucySame for me.<br /><br />LucyLucy Melfordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09049627653901928427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-61217222003015008572009-10-14T01:50:01.643-04:002009-10-14T01:50:01.643-04:00Melissa, my heart goes out to you. I will keep you...Melissa, my heart goes out to you. I will keep you both in my prayers.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00741400838072472278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-7904437294672296642009-10-14T01:32:44.463-04:002009-10-14T01:32:44.463-04:00Dear Melissa.. You are in my thoughts each day.. y...Dear Melissa.. You are in my thoughts each day.. you are not alone sweet friend.. we each deal with death in different ways.. it is more painful for you, because you are a twin.. and so close to her.. it's too bad regaurding her husband.. but karma is a beautiful thing.. remember all the beautiful times together, and the very close relationship you have had with her.. Goddess Bless you both.. <br /><br />I have not lost a sibling yet, and I am the eldest.. we are as close as siblings can be who were not raised together, but not nearly what you have been blest with.. all we can hope for is that our family members pass peacefully.. <br /><br />I wish we were closer.. so we could give you more support as you go on this journey.. I can only say that you will be in my thoughts always, and I am sure each us who have become attached to you will be praying for you during this time.. <br /><br />Love NaukishtaeNaukishtaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12297131304139916045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-79925720709669078032009-10-14T01:19:11.386-04:002009-10-14T01:19:11.386-04:00I'm sorry for what you're going through, M...I'm sorry for what you're going through, Melissa. My mother is in a similar condition. No tumors, but too much fluid on her brain until the pressure took away who she was. Eating has recently become difficult and it looks like the end is near, but then the end doesn't come and she remains in this state of near-death. She doesn't seem to know who any of us are anymore, but who knows what kind of struggle goes on in a mind that doesn't know up from down and can't hold memories for more than 7 minutes. <br /><br />I'm just saying that I feel your pain...saying it with more words than necessary, as usual.<br /><br />Love <br />Dana<br />xoxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-24763796039553390592009-10-14T01:10:49.018-04:002009-10-14T01:10:49.018-04:00Mine too, Melissa.....
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chrissie
xxxxxMine too, Melissa.....<br /><br />love<br />chrissie<br />xxxxxchrissieBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13495222190059079697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-53969875716059122932009-10-14T00:23:14.689-04:002009-10-14T00:23:14.689-04:00You and your sister are in our prayers.You and your sister are in our prayers.Kay & Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04244257765709660605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7791633210661845991.post-45035489399548872492009-10-13T23:24:28.145-04:002009-10-13T23:24:28.145-04:00Shame we hit that problem with the chat connection...Shame we hit that problem with the chat connection this could have been a time to unburden. The tears flow in proportion to the love you shared so let them flow.<br /><br />I have always found it easier to let someone go if you have seen them suffering and are happy to see the misery end or if you have had time to make peace with them rather than the sudden snatching away without warning of an accident or heart attack.<br /><br />She has not reached the age we now have come to expect, I hope she took pleasure from the time she had. Let it be a lesson to us to use the time we have as well as we can, no time to hide in the shadows.<br /><br />My thoughts are with you.<br /><br />Caroline XXXCarolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133031265351841626noreply@blogger.com